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We Are a Network of Queer and Trans-identified Mental Health Professionals Who Serve the 2SLGBTQIA Community

Lgbtq Mental Health Counseling Waterdown

Accessing culturally safe mental health counseling in Waterdown means connecting with a provider who understands the specific experiences, challenges, and strengths of 2SLGBTQIA individuals and families. Umbrella Mental Health Network brings together registered psychotherapists and social workers trained in trauma-informed, anti-oppressive practice to serve Waterdown and the surrounding Greater Toronto Area. This guide walks you through the process of finding and beginning this work, so you can move forward with confidence and support grounded in your values.

Step 1: Identify Your Counseling Needs and Goals

Start by naming what has brought you to seek support. Are you exploring your gender or sexual identity? Recovering from trauma or past relationships? Navigating a transition, coming out process, or family dynamics? Looking for couples therapy or support around alternative relationship structures? The more specific you are about what you need, the better a practitioner can assess whether they are the right fit. Write down two or three core issues or questions you want to address in counseling. This clarity matters because Umbrella Mental Health Network offers specialized expertise across individual psychotherapy, couples and ethical non-monogamy counseling, trauma recovery, gender identity exploration, and youth and young adult counseling. Knowing your primary focus helps you and the clinician align on approach and goals from the start.

Consider also what values matter most to you in a therapeutic relationship. Do you want a clinician who is explicitly feminist in their framework? Grounded in sex-positive and kink-positive perspectives? Committed to decolonization and social justice? Umbrella's practitioners integrate these values into their work, so identifying which resonate with you will help you feel more held and understood in the room.

Step 2: Reach Out to Umbrella Mental Health Network and Discuss Your Fit

Contact Umbrella Mental Health Network to begin the intake conversation. During this initial contact, you will share your counseling needs, preferred pronouns, and any specific therapeutic approaches or lived experiences you want your clinician to have. The team will listen carefully and match you with a registered psychotherapist or social worker whose expertise and style align with what you are seeking. This is not a passive process--you are an active participant in determining whether this partnership will work for you.

Waterdown residents and others in the GTA can access these services, and the intake process is designed to be clear and respectful of your time. Be honest about your budget, scheduling constraints, and any barriers you face in accessing care. Umbrella works to make counseling accessible, and transparency about your situation helps them serve you better. If you are exploring gender identity, have experienced significant trauma, or are in a queer relationship navigating complex dynamics, mention this upfront so the right clinician is identified.

Step 3: Prepare for Your First Session and Establish Your Therapeutic Work

Before your first appointment, jot down any relevant history you want your clinician to know--family background, past counseling experiences, medical or mental health history, major life events, and current stressors. You do not need to have everything organized perfectly; your clinician will guide you through a full clinical assessment during early sessions. What matters is that you arrive with honest intent and openness to the process.

In your first session, expect to spend time building safety and trust. Your clinician will explain confidentiality, discuss how you will work together, and begin to understand your story and goals. trauma-informed practice means your clinician will move at a pace that feels manageable for you, never rushing disclosure or deeper work. If you are in Waterdown and have not accessed LGBTQ-affirming mental health counseling before, recognize that this first step is significant--you are choosing to invest in your own wellbeing within a framework that honors your identity and lived experience. Over the following weeks and months, you and your clinician will collaboratively explore the issues that brought you in, build skills, process past experiences, and move toward the life and relationships you want. Progress in therapy is not linear, and setbacks are normal. Trust the process and your clinician's expertise as you move through this work together.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is there LGBTQ mental health counseling available in Waterdown?

Yes. Umbrella Mental Health Network serves Waterdown and the Greater Toronto Area with specialized LGBTQ-affirming psychotherapy and counseling. The team includes registered psychotherapists and social workers trained in trauma-informed, anti-oppressive practice tailored to 2SLGBTQIA individuals and families.

What should I prepare before my first LGBTQ counseling appointment?

Write down your main reasons for seeking support, any relevant personal or family history, past counseling experiences, and your current stressors or concerns. You do not need to have everything organized--your clinician will guide you through a full assessment. Honesty and openness matter more than perfect preparation.

How do I know if a counselor in Waterdown is a good fit for me?

During intake, discuss your values, therapeutic preferences, and specific needs with Umbrella. Share what identity elements, lived experiences, or approaches matter most to you--whether that is feminist framework, trauma-informed care, or expertise with gender identity exploration. A good fit means your clinician's expertise and values align with yours.

Acknowledgement

Tkaronto and the surrounding areas that we serve are within the Dish With One Spoon Territory. The Dish With One Spoon is a treaty between the Anishinaabe, Mississaugas and Haudenosaunee that bound them to share the territory and protect the land. Subsequent Indigenous Nations and Peoples, Europeans and all newcomers have been invited into this treaty in the spirit of peace, friendship and respect.

We at Umbrella recognize that the professions of psychology, psychotherapy, and social work have roots in colonial violence. As psychotherapists and social workers, we understand that we have a responsibility to continuously work to decolonize the practice of psychotherapy/social work and acknowledge the origins of the various healing practices we utilize.

Our therapists actively engage in regular training that emphasizes professional development, team support, and sharing the current knowledge in 2SLGBTQIA mental health, to ensure the highest level of care for our clients.

Meet Our Team

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Christopher Shillington

MA, CCC, RP
(they/them)

Clinic Director/ Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Healthy Relationships
  • Intersectional Identities
  • Trauma & PTSD
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Andrés Gayoso Descalzi

MSW,RSW
(he/him)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity & Embodiment
  • Life Changes & Transitions
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Families
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Aysha Natsheh

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Food, Body, Self-Image
  • Trauma
  • Gender & Sexual Identity
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Bushra Ahmed

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth
  • Exploring Neurodivergent Identities
  • Impact of Oppression & Trauma on Mental Health
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Clara Doucette

MA, RP (Qualifying)
(she/her)

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relational Styles & Attachment
  • Friendships & Kinship
  • Stress

Cressida Frey

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Children, Adolescents and Adults
  • Violence, Trauma and Healing
  • Stress and Anxiety

Derek Cassidy

MSW, RSW
(he/him/they/them)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relationships and Attachment
  • Complex, Relational Trauma
  • Sexuality and Sexual Health
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Jesmen Mendoza

C.Psych. (he/him) Adjunct Psychologist  
Areas of focus:
  • Complex Mental Health
  • Consultation
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Jett Peters

MSW Candidate
(they/them)

Student Therapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity
  • Relationship(s) with Food & Body
  • Trauma
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Kathryn Bargis

MSc, RP (she/her) Registered Psychotherapist  
Areas of focus:
  • Relationships
  • Trauma
  • Gender and Sexual Identity
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Maxine Bower

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Attachment in Individuals and in Relationships
  • Complex Trauma
  • Deepening Connections
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Nicholas Sorg

MSc, RP
(he/him)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Stress, Anxiety, and Depression
  • Sexual Identity Development
  • Alternative Relationships, Relationship and Family Stress
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Rae Griffin-Carlson

MSW, RSW
(she/her)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults
  • Stress, Anxiety & Depression
  • Sexual & Gender-based Violence
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Rahim Thawer

MSW, RSW
(he/him)

External Clinical Supervisor

 

Areas of focus:
  • Identity Conflict & Shame
  • Dating, Relationships, Single by Chance/Choice
  • Sexualized Substance Use
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Saadia Khan

BA (they/them) Administrative and Social Media Assistant
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Stephanie Wu

RP, Professional Art Therapist
(they/them)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Intimate Partner Violence, Sexual Assault & Childhood Abuse
  • Impacts of Oppression
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults