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We Are a Network of Queer and Trans-identified Mental Health Professionals Who Serve the 2SLGBTQIA Community

Lgbtq Mental Health Counseling Scarborough

If you are searching for LGBTQ Mental Health Counseling Scarborough, you are looking for a therapist who understands your life, your community, and the specific challenges you face-not someone working from a generic playbook. Umbrella Mental Health Network brings together registered psychotherapists and social workers in the Greater Toronto Area who specialize in exactly this kind of culturally grounded, trauma-informed care for 2SLGBTQIA individuals and families.

Finding Your Way When Therapy Has Let You Down Before

Many people in Scarborough who come to Umbrella have already tried therapy with providers who were not equipped to meet them where they are. Maybe a therapist focused on "fixing" your gender identity instead of exploring it with you. Maybe you felt pressure to leave a partner or relationship structure that made sense for your life because the counselor could not imagine anything beyond the conventional. Maybe you disclosed trauma and felt pathologized rather than supported, or you brought your whole self-your sexuality, your kink practice, your chosen family-and sensed judgment beneath the professional smile.

This happens more often than it should, and it deepens the very wounds therapy is supposed to heal. When you live in Scarborough as a queer, trans, or otherwise marginalized person, finding mental health support that does not require you to shrink yourself is not a luxury-it is essential.

How Umbrella's Approach to LGBTQ Mental Health Counseling in Scarborough Works

Umbrella Mental Health Network operates from a fundamentally different set of values. The therapists and social workers here are trained in trauma-informed, anti-oppressive practice grounded in feminism, social justice, and decolonization. That is not window dressing; it shapes every session.

When you work with Umbrella on individual psychotherapy, you are not sitting across from someone learning about your identity on the job. These are practitioners with deep expertise across gender identity exploration, trauma and PTSD recovery, and the particular mental health needs of the 2SLGBTQIA community. They understand that your anxiety or depression does not exist in a vacuum-it is shaped by living in a world that was not built for you, by past experiences of rejection or discrimination, sometimes by direct trauma.

If you are navigating a queer relationship or exploring ethical non-monogamy, Umbrella offers couples therapy and ENM counselling grounded in the same values. Many couples in Scarborough and across the GTA come to Umbrella specifically because they need a therapist who sees alternative relationship structures not as a problem to solve but as a legitimate way of loving and building a life together. Because the therapists here are sex-positive and kink-aware, you can bring all of yourself into the room without translation or shame.

For young people questioning their gender or sexual identity, Umbrella provides youth and young adult counselling that creates space for genuine exploration rather than premature conclusions. Therapists work at the pace that makes sense for you, not according to someone else's timeline.

What Changes When You Have the Right Support

People who work with Umbrella Mental Health Network often report a shift that goes beyond symptom relief. Yes, anxiety quiets. Sleep improves. The weight of depression lifts. But the deeper change is that you stop fighting yourself.

One person came to Umbrella in Scarborough carrying years of internalized shame about their sexuality and a relationship that did not fit into conventional categories but felt true and nurturing to them. Early sessions focused on processing family rejection and the messages they had absorbed about what was "normal." Over time, with a therapist who did not treat their queer identity or their chosen relationship structure as problems, they began to integrate their lived experience into a coherent sense of self. They stopped apologizing for existing. They stopped waiting for permission to be happy.

Another client came in after a trauma that left them unable to trust in intimate relationships. Standard talk therapy had helped with some things but had not touched the nervous system activation that made closeness feel dangerous. Through trauma-informed work that honored both the reality of what happened and their resilience, they gradually rebuilt safety in their body and learned to extend that safety to others.

These are not exceptional outcomes. They are what happens when therapy is built for you, not despite you.

Why Scarborough Matters and What Umbrella Brings

Scarborough is home to thousands of LGBTQ+ people navigating housing costs, complex family dynamics, work stress, and the particular geography of the city. Many live far from downtown Toronto where LGBTQ+ resources are concentrated. Many work multiple jobs. Many are caregivers. Some are newcomers to Canada or live with precarious immigration status. The therapists at Umbrella understand that access means something concrete: services available across the Greater Toronto Area, including in Scarborough, with flexibility in how care is delivered.

Umbrella's team also brings expertise in cultural humility and intersectionality. Your mental health does not exist separately from your race, class, disability status, or immigration experience. Your therapist will not ask you to park those parts of your identity at the door. Instead, they integrate them into how they understand what you are carrying and what healing looks like for you.

Taking the Next Step

If you live in Scarborough or elsewhere in the Greater Toronto Area and you are ready to work with a therapist who gets it, reach out to Umbrella Mental Health Network. The first conversation does not have to solve anything. It is simply a chance to see if this is the right fit, to ask your questions, and to start imagining what becomes possible when you have genuinely affirming, trauma-informed support in your corner. You deserve that kind of care.

Frequently Asked Questions

What makes LGBTQ Mental Health Counseling in Scarborough at Umbrella different from other therapists?

Umbrella's therapists are trained specifically in trauma-informed, anti-oppressive practice with deep expertise in gender identity, queer relationships, and the lived experience of 2SLGBTQIA people. They work from values of feminism, social justice, sex-positivity, and kink-awareness-meaning you do not have to translate or minimize any part of yourself. Most importantly, they see your identity and relationships as part of your wholeness, not as something to fix.

Is there LGBTQ Mental Health Counseling available in Scarborough if I cannot come to downtown Toronto?

Yes. Umbrella Mental Health Network serves clients across the Greater Toronto Area, including Scarborough. The team works flexibly to make care accessible, so you can get the support you need without traveling across the city or taking time off work you cannot afford to lose.

Can Umbrella help with both individual trauma and couples counseling for queer relationships?

Absolutely. Umbrella offers individual psychotherapy for trauma and PTSD recovery as well as specialized couples therapy and ENM counselling for people in alternative relationship structures. Many clients work with a therapist on personal healing and then bring their partner in for joint sessions when that feels right.

Acknowledgement

Tkaronto and the surrounding areas that we serve are within the Dish With One Spoon Territory. The Dish With One Spoon is a treaty between the Anishinaabe, Mississaugas and Haudenosaunee that bound them to share the territory and protect the land. Subsequent Indigenous Nations and Peoples, Europeans and all newcomers have been invited into this treaty in the spirit of peace, friendship and respect.

We at Umbrella recognize that the professions of psychology, psychotherapy, and social work have roots in colonial violence. As psychotherapists and social workers, we understand that we have a responsibility to continuously work to decolonize the practice of psychotherapy/social work and acknowledge the origins of the various healing practices we utilize.

Our therapists actively engage in regular training that emphasizes professional development, team support, and sharing the current knowledge in 2SLGBTQIA mental health, to ensure the highest level of care for our clients.

Meet Our Team

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Christopher Shillington

MA, CCC, RP
(they/them)

Clinic Director/ Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Healthy Relationships
  • Intersectional Identities
  • Trauma & PTSD
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Andrés Gayoso Descalzi

MSW,RSW
(he/him)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity & Embodiment
  • Life Changes & Transitions
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Families
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Aysha Natsheh

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Food, Body, Self-Image
  • Trauma
  • Gender & Sexual Identity
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Bushra Ahmed

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth
  • Exploring Neurodivergent Identities
  • Impact of Oppression & Trauma on Mental Health
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Clara Doucette

MA, RP (Qualifying)
(she/her)

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relational Styles & Attachment
  • Friendships & Kinship
  • Stress

Cressida Frey

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Children, Adolescents and Adults
  • Violence, Trauma and Healing
  • Stress and Anxiety

Derek Cassidy

MSW, RSW
(he/him/they/them)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relationships and Attachment
  • Complex, Relational Trauma
  • Sexuality and Sexual Health
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Jesmen Mendoza

C.Psych. (he/him) Adjunct Psychologist  
Areas of focus:
  • Complex Mental Health
  • Consultation
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Jett Peters

MSW Candidate
(they/them)

Student Therapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity
  • Relationship(s) with Food & Body
  • Trauma
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Kathryn Bargis

MSc, RP (she/her) Registered Psychotherapist  
Areas of focus:
  • Relationships
  • Trauma
  • Gender and Sexual Identity
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Maxine Bower

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Attachment in Individuals and in Relationships
  • Complex Trauma
  • Deepening Connections
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Nicholas Sorg

MSc, RP
(he/him)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Stress, Anxiety, and Depression
  • Sexual Identity Development
  • Alternative Relationships, Relationship and Family Stress
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Rae Griffin-Carlson

MSW, RSW
(she/her)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults
  • Stress, Anxiety & Depression
  • Sexual & Gender-based Violence
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Rahim Thawer

MSW, RSW
(he/him)

External Clinical Supervisor

 

Areas of focus:
  • Identity Conflict & Shame
  • Dating, Relationships, Single by Chance/Choice
  • Sexualized Substance Use
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Saadia Khan

BA (they/them) Administrative and Social Media Assistant
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Stephanie Wu

RP, Professional Art Therapist
(they/them)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Intimate Partner Violence, Sexual Assault & Childhood Abuse
  • Impacts of Oppression
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults