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We Are a Network of Queer and Trans-identified Mental Health Professionals Who Serve the 2SLGBTQIA Community

Lgbtq Mental Health Counseling Tillsonburg

LGBTQ mental health counseling in Tillsonburg connects you with trauma-informed, culturally safe therapists who understand the lived experience of 2SLGBTQIA individuals and families. Umbrella Mental Health Network serves clients throughout the Greater Toronto Area, including Tillsonburg, offering specialized psychotherapy grounded in social justice, feminism, and anti-oppressive practice.

This guide walks you through accessing affirming mental health support tailored to your needs, whether you are exploring your identity, healing from trauma, navigating a relationship, or seeking care that honors your whole self. By the end, you will understand how to connect with a registered psychotherapist who gets it.

Step 1: Identify What You Are Looking For

Start by naming what brought you to seek support. Are you processing trauma or grief? Exploring your gender or sexual identity? Working through anxiety or depression? Seeking couples therapy or counseling around alternative relationship structures? Umbrella Mental Health Network offers individual psychotherapy, couples and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) counseling, trauma and PTSD treatment, gender and sexual identity exploration, and specialized support for youth and young adults.

This clarity matters because it shapes which therapist is the right fit. Someone trained in trauma recovery brings different skills than someone skilled in identity exploration work, though many practitioners hold multiple areas of expertise. Write down your primary concern and any secondary issues on your mind. This will help you communicate clearly when you reach out.

Step 2: Understand What Affirming Care Means

Affirming LGBTQ mental health counseling begins from a place of acceptance: your identity and orientation are not the problem to be fixed. Instead, a trauma-informed therapist helps you navigate the real challenges you face---internalized shame, discrimination, grief, relational dynamics, or the effects of living in a world that does not always make space for you.

Think of it like the difference between fixing a leak in the roof versus blaming the house for having walls. The affirming approach recognizes that struggles often arise not from who you are, but from how the world has treated you. Umbrella Mental Health Network brings values of decolonization, feminism, and sex and kink positivity to this work, meaning your therapist meets you without judgment about your sexuality, relationships, or gender expression.

Affirming therapy does not pathologize identity. It creates safety to heal from the impact of living as a marginalized person in systems not designed for you.

Step 3: Know What to Expect in Your First Session

Your initial session with a therapist at Umbrella Mental Health Network will focus on listening and assessment, not on jumping into deep work. The therapist will ask about your history, what brought you in right now, what you hope therapy can offer, and any specific challenges or goals. They will explain how they work, what confidentiality means, and the limits to privacy (such as situations involving immediate danger).

This is also your chance to assess fit. You are interviewing them as much as they are learning about you. Notice how they respond to your identity and concerns. Do they seem knowledgeable about LGBTQ issues? Do they ask questions with genuine curiosity rather than assumption? Do you feel respected? If something does not feel right, it is okay to say so and try a different therapist. The relationship itself is the foundation of healing.

Step 4: Prepare Your Information and Questions

Before your appointment, gather some basic details: your health history, any current medications, previous therapy experience, and whether you have insurance that covers psychotherapy. Bring a list of questions about the therapist's approach, their experience with your specific concerns, how they handle crisis situations, and their fees and cancellation policy.

Consider jotting down a few notes about your goals. What would change if therapy worked? What does healing look like for you? You do not need a perfect answer---therapy is often about discovering this together---but having some thoughts ready helps you use your session time well. If you live in Tillsonburg or nearby areas in the region, ask whether the therapist offers in-person sessions, virtual appointments, or both, so you can choose what feels most accessible.

Step 5: Take the First Step and Reach Out

Contact Umbrella Mental Health Network to begin. Whether you are in Tillsonburg or another part of the Greater Toronto Area, the practice is equipped to support you. Reaching out is an act of courage and self-care. You deserve mental health support that affirms who you are and honors your experiences.

When you connect with Umbrella, be honest about what you are seeking and any preferences you have (such as therapist gender identity, experience with specific issues, or appointment format). The team will work with you to find a match and get you started on your healing journey.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does Umbrella Mental Health Network serve clients in Tillsonburg?

Yes. Umbrella Mental Health Network serves the Greater Toronto Area, including Tillsonburg and surrounding communities. Depending on your location and preference, appointments may be offered in-person or virtually. Contact the practice to discuss what works best for you.

What is the difference between a psychotherapist and a social worker?

Both are regulated mental health professionals trained to provide therapy. Registered psychotherapists and social workers at Umbrella hold specialized credentials and bring different professional backgrounds. Both can provide effective trauma-informed, affirming care. The right fit depends on your comfort and the therapist's expertise in your specific area of need.

How do I know if trauma-informed therapy is right for me?

Trauma-informed care is beneficial for anyone with a history of difficult experiences, whether or not you have been formally diagnosed with PTSD. It focuses on safety, choice, and understanding how past harm shows up in your present life. If you are unsure, discuss your history and concerns with a therapist at Umbrella, and they can help determine the best approach.

Can I access LGBTQ mental health counseling in Tillsonburg if I am unsure about my identity?

Absolutely. Umbrella Mental Health Network specializes in gender and sexual identity exploration. A therapist can help you work through questions about your orientation, gender identity, or expression in a judgment-free space, at whatever pace feels right for you.

What if I am in a non-monogamous or alternative relationship and want couples therapy?

Umbrella Mental Health Network offers couples therapy and ETH non-monogamy (ENM) counseling specifically. Therapists understand relationship structures beyond traditional monogamy and bring affirmation and expertise to this work. This service is available throughout the GTA.

Is therapy with Umbrella Mental Health Network confidential?

Yes, therapist-client confidentiality is a cornerstone of ethical practice. Your therapist will explain the limits of confidentiality in your first session, such as situations involving imminent danger or abuse of a child or vulnerable adult, which are legally required to be reported.

Acknowledgement

Tkaronto and the surrounding areas that we serve are within the Dish With One Spoon Territory. The Dish With One Spoon is a treaty between the Anishinaabe, Mississaugas and Haudenosaunee that bound them to share the territory and protect the land. Subsequent Indigenous Nations and Peoples, Europeans and all newcomers have been invited into this treaty in the spirit of peace, friendship and respect.

We at Umbrella recognize that the professions of psychology, psychotherapy, and social work have roots in colonial violence. As psychotherapists and social workers, we understand that we have a responsibility to continuously work to decolonize the practice of psychotherapy/social work and acknowledge the origins of the various healing practices we utilize.

Our therapists actively engage in regular training that emphasizes professional development, team support, and sharing the current knowledge in 2SLGBTQIA mental health, to ensure the highest level of care for our clients.

Meet Our Team

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Christopher Shillington

MA, CCC, RP
(they/them)

Clinic Director/ Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Healthy Relationships
  • Intersectional Identities
  • Trauma & PTSD
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Andrés Gayoso Descalzi

MSW,RSW
(he/him)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity & Embodiment
  • Life Changes & Transitions
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Families
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Aysha Natsheh

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Food, Body, Self-Image
  • Trauma
  • Gender & Sexual Identity
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Bushra Ahmed

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth
  • Exploring Neurodivergent Identities
  • Impact of Oppression & Trauma on Mental Health
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Clara Doucette

MA, RP (Qualifying)
(she/her)

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relational Styles & Attachment
  • Friendships & Kinship
  • Stress

Cressida Frey

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Children, Adolescents and Adults
  • Violence, Trauma and Healing
  • Stress and Anxiety

Derek Cassidy

MSW, RSW
(he/him/they/them)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relationships and Attachment
  • Complex, Relational Trauma
  • Sexuality and Sexual Health
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Jesmen Mendoza

C.Psych. (he/him) Adjunct Psychologist  
Areas of focus:
  • Complex Mental Health
  • Consultation
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Jett Peters

MSW Candidate
(they/them)

Student Therapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity
  • Relationship(s) with Food & Body
  • Trauma
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Kathryn Bargis

MSc, RP (she/her) Registered Psychotherapist  
Areas of focus:
  • Relationships
  • Trauma
  • Gender and Sexual Identity
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Maxine Bower

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Attachment in Individuals and in Relationships
  • Complex Trauma
  • Deepening Connections
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Nicholas Sorg

MSc, RP
(he/him)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Stress, Anxiety, and Depression
  • Sexual Identity Development
  • Alternative Relationships, Relationship and Family Stress
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Rae Griffin-Carlson

MSW, RSW
(she/her)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults
  • Stress, Anxiety & Depression
  • Sexual & Gender-based Violence
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Rahim Thawer

MSW, RSW
(he/him)

External Clinical Supervisor

 

Areas of focus:
  • Identity Conflict & Shame
  • Dating, Relationships, Single by Chance/Choice
  • Sexualized Substance Use
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Saadia Khan

BA (they/them) Administrative and Social Media Assistant
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Stephanie Wu

RP, Professional Art Therapist
(they/them)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Intimate Partner Violence, Sexual Assault & Childhood Abuse
  • Impacts of Oppression
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults