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We Are a Network of Queer and Trans-identified Mental Health Professionals Who Serve the 2SLGBTQIA Community

Lgbtq Mental Health Counseling Thornhill

LGBTQ mental health counseling in Thornhill connects queer individuals, couples, and families with therapists who understand the distinct challenges of living authentically in a heteronormative world. Umbrella Mental Health Network brings registered psychotherapists and social workers to Thornhill and the Greater Toronto Area who specialize in serving the 2SLGBTQIA community with care grounded in feminism, social justice, and trauma-informed practice.

A Safe Space for Identity and Belonging in Thornhill

Thornhill is a diverse, rapidly growing community in the York Region where many queer individuals and families build their lives. Yet finding a therapist who truly understands LGBTQ+ experience-who sees gender identity exploration as growth rather than pathology, who affirms non-traditional relationships, who centers your safety and autonomy-can feel impossible. Many people in Thornhill spend years in therapy with clinicians who, however well-meaning, operate from a heteronormative or cisnormative lens. This creates invisible work: you must educate your therapist while managing your own mental health.

Umbrella Mental Health Network eliminates this burden. The therapists here have built their practice around the actual lives and values of LGBTQ+ people. They bring expertise in gender and sexual identity exploration, trauma recovery, couples therapy including ethical non-monogamy counselling, and youth mental health. Because they work from an anti-oppressive framework-understanding how systems of power shape your experience-they ask better questions and offer deeper support.

Addressing Trauma and Building Resilience

Many LGBTQ+ individuals carry trauma rooted in rejection, discrimination, conversion attempts, or medical mistreatment. Trauma lives in the nervous system, not just the mind. It shapes how you relate to others, whether you feel safe in your own body, and how you move through the world. Standard talk therapy alone often cannot access or resolve this.

Umbrella's therapists use trauma-informed approaches that recognize how oppression and minoritization create specific psychological patterns. When you work with them on trauma recovery, they understand that your hypervigilance may be a rational response to real danger, not a disorder. They help you process what happened while rebuilding your sense of safety and agency. This is not about "getting over it"-it is about integrating your experience and reclaiming your capacity to thrive. Clients in Thornhill and across the GTA report feeling genuinely heard, often for the first time in a therapeutic relationship.

Support for Couples, Families, and Relationship Exploration

Queer relationships take many forms. You might be exploring ethical non-monogamy, building a chosen family, co-parenting with a former partner, or navigating the specific dynamics of a same-sex or trans partnership. Mainstream couples therapy often assumes a monogamous heterosexual couple as the default, making your actual relationship invisible or implicitly pathologized.

Umbrella offers couples therapy and ENM (ethical non-monogamy) counselling designed for your relationship, not someone else's template. The therapists here work with you to build communication skills, resolve conflict, and strengthen intimacy in ways that honor your values and structure. They also bring sex-positive, kink-positive perspectives, understanding that sexual expression and identity exploration are healthy parts of queer life. Whether you are in Thornhill, Markham, Vaughan, or elsewhere in the region, you can access this expertise.

Youth and Young Adult Identity Exploration

Coming out, transitioning, or exploring sexuality during adolescence and young adulthood happens within family systems, school environments, and peer groups that may not be affirming. Some young people experience active rejection; others navigate subtle invalidation or lack of understanding. This affects mental health, academic performance, and how they see themselves.

Umbrella provides counselling for youth and young adults that centers their autonomy and self-determination. Therapists help you navigate identity questions at your own pace, manage family dynamics, address anxiety or depression, and build genuine self-acceptance. They also work with families, helping parents and caregivers understand their child's experience and offer meaningful support. This dual approach-supporting both the young person and their family system-creates conditions for real belonging in Thornhill and beyond.

Taking the First Step

Seeking therapy is an act of self-respect. If you are in Thornhill or the Greater Toronto Area and looking for a therapist who understands LGBTQ+ life-who sees your identity, your relationships, and your healing as inherently valuable-Umbrella Mental Health Network is ready to work with you. Reach out to learn more about how they can support your mental health and wellbeing.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is there LGBTQ mental health counseling available in Thornhill?

Yes. Umbrella Mental Health Network serves Thornhill and the Greater Toronto Area with specialized LGBTQ+ counselling and psychotherapy. Their registered psychotherapists and social workers provide trauma-informed, culturally competent care grounded in social justice values and anti-oppressive practice.

What is trauma-informed therapy for LGBTQ+ individuals?

Trauma-informed therapy recognizes how oppression, discrimination, and minoritization create psychological patterns in queer and trans people. Rather than pathologizing these patterns, therapists understand them as adaptive responses to real danger. This approach helps you process past harm while rebuilding safety, autonomy, and resilience in your nervous system.

Do they offer couples counseling for same-sex and non-monogamous relationships?

Yes. Umbrella provides couples therapy and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) counselling designed specifically for LGBTQ+ partnerships and alternative relationship structures. Their therapists bring sex-positive, kink-positive perspectives and help couples build communication and intimacy in ways that honor their actual values.

Can youth and young adults access counseling for gender and sexual identity exploration?

Yes. Umbrella offers youth and young adult counselling that centers autonomy and self-determination in identity exploration. They also work with families to help parents understand and support their child's experience, creating pathways to genuine belonging at home and in the community.

Acknowledgement

Tkaronto and the surrounding areas that we serve are within the Dish With One Spoon Territory. The Dish With One Spoon is a treaty between the Anishinaabe, Mississaugas and Haudenosaunee that bound them to share the territory and protect the land. Subsequent Indigenous Nations and Peoples, Europeans and all newcomers have been invited into this treaty in the spirit of peace, friendship and respect.

We at Umbrella recognize that the professions of psychology, psychotherapy, and social work have roots in colonial violence. As psychotherapists and social workers, we understand that we have a responsibility to continuously work to decolonize the practice of psychotherapy/social work and acknowledge the origins of the various healing practices we utilize.

Our therapists actively engage in regular training that emphasizes professional development, team support, and sharing the current knowledge in 2SLGBTQIA mental health, to ensure the highest level of care for our clients.

Meet Our Team

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Christopher Shillington

MA, CCC, RP
(they/them)

Clinic Director/ Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Healthy Relationships
  • Intersectional Identities
  • Trauma & PTSD
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Andrés Gayoso Descalzi

MSW,RSW
(he/him)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity & Embodiment
  • Life Changes & Transitions
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Families
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Aysha Natsheh

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Food, Body, Self-Image
  • Trauma
  • Gender & Sexual Identity
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Bushra Ahmed

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth
  • Exploring Neurodivergent Identities
  • Impact of Oppression & Trauma on Mental Health
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Clara Doucette

MA, RP (Qualifying)
(she/her)

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relational Styles & Attachment
  • Friendships & Kinship
  • Stress

Cressida Frey

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Children, Adolescents and Adults
  • Violence, Trauma and Healing
  • Stress and Anxiety

Derek Cassidy

MSW, RSW
(he/him/they/them)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relationships and Attachment
  • Complex, Relational Trauma
  • Sexuality and Sexual Health
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Jesmen Mendoza

C.Psych. (he/him) Adjunct Psychologist  
Areas of focus:
  • Complex Mental Health
  • Consultation
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Jett Peters

MSW Candidate
(they/them)

Student Therapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity
  • Relationship(s) with Food & Body
  • Trauma
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Kathryn Bargis

MSc, RP (she/her) Registered Psychotherapist  
Areas of focus:
  • Relationships
  • Trauma
  • Gender and Sexual Identity
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Maxine Bower

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Attachment in Individuals and in Relationships
  • Complex Trauma
  • Deepening Connections
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Nicholas Sorg

MSc, RP
(he/him)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Stress, Anxiety, and Depression
  • Sexual Identity Development
  • Alternative Relationships, Relationship and Family Stress
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Rae Griffin-Carlson

MSW, RSW
(she/her)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults
  • Stress, Anxiety & Depression
  • Sexual & Gender-based Violence
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Rahim Thawer

MSW, RSW
(he/him)

External Clinical Supervisor

 

Areas of focus:
  • Identity Conflict & Shame
  • Dating, Relationships, Single by Chance/Choice
  • Sexualized Substance Use
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Saadia Khan

BA (they/them) Administrative and Social Media Assistant
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Stephanie Wu

RP, Professional Art Therapist
(they/them)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Intimate Partner Violence, Sexual Assault & Childhood Abuse
  • Impacts of Oppression
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults