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We Are a Network of Queer and Trans-identified Mental Health Professionals Who Serve the 2SLGBTQIA Community

Lgbtq Mental Health Counseling St Clements

Finding mental health support that actually understands your life-your identity, your relationships, the specific ways trauma shows up in a queer or trans body-is harder than it should be. You might have tried therapists who mean well but miss crucial context, or worse, who operate from assumptions that don't fit who you are. LGBTQ mental health counseling in St Clements through Umbrella Mental Health Network is built differently: by and for 2SLGBTQIA people, grounded in trauma-informed, anti-oppressive practice that honors your full self.

Why St Clements Residents Deserve Culturally Competent Care

St Clements is a small, rural community in Wellington County with a tight-knit character and strong local identity. For LGBTQ+ folks living here, that sense of community can be beautiful-and it can also mean limited access to affirming mental health services. The distance to larger centers, combined with the reality of smaller-town social dynamics, creates a particular need: counseling that recognizes both the resilience required to live openly in a rural setting and the specific isolation that can accompany it.

Umbrella Mental Health Network serves St Clements and the broader Greater Toronto Area, bringing specialized expertise directly to people who might otherwise face long drives or waitlists at generalist practices. The team includes registered psychotherapists and social workers trained in the intersections of queer and trans experience, trauma recovery, and social justice-not as add-ons, but as the foundation of how they work.

Individual Therapy That Meets You Where You Are

One-on-one psychotherapy with Umbrella starts from a simple premise: your mental health cannot be separated from your identity and your lived experience. Whether you are working through trauma, navigating anxiety or depression, exploring your gender or sexual identity, or processing the accumulated weight of living in a world not built for you, the counselor in the room with you understands that context.

Trauma recovery is central to this work. Many LGBTQ+ people carry wounds from rejection, discrimination, medical trauma, or violence-sometimes layered across multiple systems. Therapists at Umbrella use trauma-informed approaches that don't retraumatize you in the process of healing. They also practice what it means to center your agency: you decide what to work on, at what pace, in what way. That is fundamentally different from therapy that positions the therapist as the expert on your life.

For people in St Clements and surrounding areas, this means you can access this caliber of care without traveling hours or compromising on cultural safety for the sake of proximity.

Couples Therapy and Ethical Non-Monogamy Counseling

Queer and trans relationships don't always fit the template that mainstream couples therapy assumes. You might be navigating ethical non-monogamy, exploring kink and sexuality as part of your relational life, or working through the specific challenges that arise when both partners carry trauma histories. You might be a same-sex couple, a polyamorous triad, or any number of configurations that heteronormative practice doesn't prepare for.

Umbrella Mental Health Network offers couples therapy and counseling around ethical non-monogamy (ENM) that starts from sex-positive, kink-positive, relationship-diverse premises. That means the therapist is not there to impose a relationship structure on you or subtly pressure you toward monogamy. They are there to help you and your partner(s) communicate more clearly, navigate conflict, and build the relational life that actually works for you. For people in St Clements seeking this specialized support, this represents access to a level of expertise that is rare outside major urban centers.

Gender Identity Exploration and Youth Counseling

For young people and young adults questioning or coming out around gender and sexual identity, having a therapist who sees this exploration as healthy and worthy of support-rather than something to pathologize or talk you out of-changes everything. Umbrella offers counseling specifically designed for youth and young adults navigating these questions, as well as gender identity exploration work for people of any age.

This is not conversion therapy dressed up in progressive language. It is psychotherapy that honors your autonomy, that works with you to understand your own experience, and that treats gender and sexual diversity as a natural part of human variation. For LGBTQ+ young people in St Clements, access to this kind of affirming space is often the difference between thriving and struggling alone.

Starting Your Journey Toward Healing

If you are living in St Clements or the surrounding Greater Toronto Area and looking for mental health support that actually gets it-that understands queer and trans life from the inside, that holds trauma with skill and compassion, that centers your humanity and your right to define yourself-reach out to Umbrella Mental Health Network. The team is here to listen, to understand what brings you in, and to work with you toward healing that fits your life and your values.

Frequently Asked Questions

What makes LGBTQ mental health counseling in St Clements different from generic therapy?

Umbrella Mental Health Network brings specialized training in queer and trans experience, trauma-informed care, and anti-oppressive practice. Therapists understand the specific ways LGBTQ+ identity intersects with mental health, rather than treating identity as background information. This means you do not have to educate your therapist about basic aspects of your life.

Does Umbrella Mental Health Network serve St Clements specifically?

Yes. Umbrella Mental Health Network serves St Clements and the broader Greater Toronto Area, bringing culturally competent LGBTQ+ mental health services to rural and suburban communities that often lack local access to affirming care.

What if I am exploring my gender or sexual identity and not sure what I need?

Gender and sexual identity exploration is a core service at Umbrella. Therapists work with you to understand your own experience at your own pace, without pushing you toward any predetermined outcome. Many people find that having space to explore openly-without judgment or pressure-is itself deeply healing.

Can Umbrella help with couples therapy if we are not monogamous?

Absolutely. Umbrella offers couples therapy and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) counseling from a sex-positive, relationship-diverse framework. Whether you are a same-sex couple, polyamorous, exploring kink, or any other relational structure, therapists work within your actual relationship rather than imposing assumptions about what it should look like.

How do I know if I have experienced trauma that therapy could help with?

Trauma shows up differently in different people-sometimes as anxiety, nightmares, hypervigilance, numbness, or difficulty trusting. Many LGBTQ+ people carry accumulated trauma from discrimination, rejection, or violence without naming it that way. In an initial consultation with Umbrella, therapists listen to your experience and help you understand what support might help.

Is this service available for young adults questioning their identity?

Yes. Umbrella offers youth and young adult counseling specifically for people exploring gender and sexual identity. This work is affirming and autonomy-centered, meaning the therapist supports your self-discovery rather than steering you toward any particular conclusion.

What does anti-oppressive therapy actually mean in practice?

Anti-oppressive practice means therapists actively work against the systems and assumptions that marginalize LGBTQ+ people. Rather than treating your identity as the problem to solve, they recognize how oppression affects your mental health and help you build resilience and connection. It also means accountability: Umbrella operates from values of feminism, social justice, and decolonization.

Acknowledgement

Tkaronto and the surrounding areas that we serve are within the Dish With One Spoon Territory. The Dish With One Spoon is a treaty between the Anishinaabe, Mississaugas and Haudenosaunee that bound them to share the territory and protect the land. Subsequent Indigenous Nations and Peoples, Europeans and all newcomers have been invited into this treaty in the spirit of peace, friendship and respect.

We at Umbrella recognize that the professions of psychology, psychotherapy, and social work have roots in colonial violence. As psychotherapists and social workers, we understand that we have a responsibility to continuously work to decolonize the practice of psychotherapy/social work and acknowledge the origins of the various healing practices we utilize.

Our therapists actively engage in regular training that emphasizes professional development, team support, and sharing the current knowledge in 2SLGBTQIA mental health, to ensure the highest level of care for our clients.

Meet Our Team

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Christopher Shillington

MA, CCC, RP
(they/them)

Clinic Director/ Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Healthy Relationships
  • Intersectional Identities
  • Trauma & PTSD
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Andrés Gayoso Descalzi

MSW,RSW
(he/him)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity & Embodiment
  • Life Changes & Transitions
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Families
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Aysha Natsheh

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Food, Body, Self-Image
  • Trauma
  • Gender & Sexual Identity
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Bushra Ahmed

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth
  • Exploring Neurodivergent Identities
  • Impact of Oppression & Trauma on Mental Health
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Clara Doucette

MA, RP (Qualifying)
(she/her)

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relational Styles & Attachment
  • Friendships & Kinship
  • Stress

Cressida Frey

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Children, Adolescents and Adults
  • Violence, Trauma and Healing
  • Stress and Anxiety

Derek Cassidy

MSW, RSW
(he/him/they/them)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relationships and Attachment
  • Complex, Relational Trauma
  • Sexuality and Sexual Health
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Jesmen Mendoza

C.Psych. (he/him) Adjunct Psychologist  
Areas of focus:
  • Complex Mental Health
  • Consultation
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Jett Peters

MSW Candidate
(they/them)

Student Therapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity
  • Relationship(s) with Food & Body
  • Trauma
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Kathryn Bargis

MSc, RP (she/her) Registered Psychotherapist  
Areas of focus:
  • Relationships
  • Trauma
  • Gender and Sexual Identity
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Maxine Bower

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Attachment in Individuals and in Relationships
  • Complex Trauma
  • Deepening Connections
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Nicholas Sorg

MSc, RP
(he/him)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Stress, Anxiety, and Depression
  • Sexual Identity Development
  • Alternative Relationships, Relationship and Family Stress
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Rae Griffin-Carlson

MSW, RSW
(she/her)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults
  • Stress, Anxiety & Depression
  • Sexual & Gender-based Violence
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Rahim Thawer

MSW, RSW
(he/him)

External Clinical Supervisor

 

Areas of focus:
  • Identity Conflict & Shame
  • Dating, Relationships, Single by Chance/Choice
  • Sexualized Substance Use
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Saadia Khan

BA (they/them) Administrative and Social Media Assistant
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Stephanie Wu

RP, Professional Art Therapist
(they/them)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Intimate Partner Violence, Sexual Assault & Childhood Abuse
  • Impacts of Oppression
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults