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We Are a Network of Queer and Trans-identified Mental Health Professionals Who Serve the 2SLGBTQIA Community

Lgbtq Mental Health Counseling Pickering

LGBTQ Mental Health Counseling Pickering connects 2SLGBTQIA individuals and families in Durham Region with registered psychotherapists and social workers who understand the specific challenges facing queer and trans people. Umbrella Mental Health Network brings specialized clinical expertise to Pickering residents seeking culturally safe, affirming mental health care grounded in trauma-informed and anti-oppressive practice.

Pickering's population is diverse and growing, with many LGBTQ+ residents navigating identity exploration, relationship dynamics, trauma recovery, and the particular stressors that come with living authentically in a world not designed with queer and trans people in mind. Umbrella serves this community with the same clinical rigor and radical values that define their work across the Greater Toronto Area.

What does trauma-informed LGBTQ therapy in Pickering look like?

Trauma-informed practice means that every clinician at Umbrella understands how trauma shapes the nervous system, relationships, and identity-and how systemic oppression compounds individual trauma. In Pickering, this translates to therapists who recognize that many LGBTQ+ clients carry both personal trauma and the cumulative weight of living in a society that has not always affirmed their existence.

The methodology involves several core elements. First, safety and choice are centered: you control the pace of therapy, the topics discussed, and how your story is told. Second, clinicians explicitly name and address how homophobia, transphobia, racism, and other systems of oppression shape your experience-this is not something you have to educate your therapist about. Third, the therapeutic relationship itself becomes a place where you can experience being fully seen and accepted, which neurologically supports healing.

Umbrella's registered psychotherapists and social workers in the Pickering area use evidence-based modalities including somatic experiencing, Internal Family Systems, and cognitive-behavioral approaches, adapted within a queer-affirming, feminist, and decolonial framework. Because trauma lives in the body, not just the mind, Umbrella integrates body-based work alongside talk therapy.

Which services does Umbrella provide in Pickering?

Umbrella Mental Health Network offers several specialized service areas to Pickering residents. Individual psychotherapy addresses trauma and PTSD, anxiety and depression, gender and sexual identity exploration, and the particular mental health needs of LGBTQ+ people. Couples therapy and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) counselling serve queer and trans couples navigating relationship dynamics, communication, commitment, and alternative relationship structures. Youth and young adult counselling supports people exploring their identity in real time, with clinicians who understand the specific pressures facing 2SLGBTQIA young people.

All of these services are grounded in the same values: trauma-informed care, anti-oppressive practice, feminism, social justice, decolonization, and sex/kink-positivity. This means Umbrella does not pathologize consensual sexuality, alternative relationship structures, or gender diversity. Instead, the focus is on helping you build a life aligned with your authentic self, free from shame.

Why is culturally competent care important for LGBTQ+ people in Pickering seeking mental health support?

A therapist who is "LGBTQ+-friendly" but not specialized carries real risks. Generic mental health training does not teach clinicians about the specific mental health impacts of gender dysphoria, coming out, chosen family, medical transition, or navigating healthcare systems as a trans person. It does not teach about the particular relational dynamics in queer couples, or the intergenerational trauma embedded in LGBTQ+ communities.

When you work with a clinician at Umbrella, you are working with someone who has deep expertise in gender and sexual identity, who understands queer and trans history and community, and who actively interrogates their own biases and assumptions. This is not the same as a generalist therapist with good intentions. Research shows that LGBTQ+ clients experience better outcomes-lower dropout rates, greater symptom reduction, higher satisfaction-when their therapist is specifically trained and experienced in LGBTQ+ mental health.

In Pickering, where LGBTQ+ residents may have limited options for specialized care, Umbrella brings that expertise directly to your community. You should not have to travel across the GTA or settle for a therapist who does not fully understand your experience.

If you are looking for mental health support that honors who you are, Umbrella Mental Health Network welcomes your inquiry. You can reach out to learn more about how therapy might support your healing and growth.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is there LGBTQ mental health counseling available in Pickering?

Yes. Umbrella Mental Health Network serves Pickering residents with specialized LGBTQ+ counseling delivered by registered psychotherapists and social workers. Services include individual therapy, couples counselling, trauma treatment, and youth support, all grounded in trauma-informed and anti-oppressive practice.

What makes trauma-informed therapy different from regular counseling?

Trauma-informed therapy explicitly recognizes how trauma affects the nervous system, relationships, and sense of self, and prioritizes safety, choice, and pacing in treatment. For LGBTQ+ clients, it also addresses how systemic oppression compounds individual trauma, rather than treating these as separate issues.

Does Umbrella work with LGBTQ+ couples and alternative relationship structures?

Yes. Umbrella offers couples therapy and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) counselling for queer and trans couples. The practice is sex-positive and kink-positive, meaning it affirms consensual adult sexuality and does not pathologize alternative relationship structures.

Acknowledgement

Tkaronto and the surrounding areas that we serve are within the Dish With One Spoon Territory. The Dish With One Spoon is a treaty between the Anishinaabe, Mississaugas and Haudenosaunee that bound them to share the territory and protect the land. Subsequent Indigenous Nations and Peoples, Europeans and all newcomers have been invited into this treaty in the spirit of peace, friendship and respect.

We at Umbrella recognize that the professions of psychology, psychotherapy, and social work have roots in colonial violence. As psychotherapists and social workers, we understand that we have a responsibility to continuously work to decolonize the practice of psychotherapy/social work and acknowledge the origins of the various healing practices we utilize.

Our therapists actively engage in regular training that emphasizes professional development, team support, and sharing the current knowledge in 2SLGBTQIA mental health, to ensure the highest level of care for our clients.

Meet Our Team

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Christopher Shillington

MA, CCC, RP
(they/them)

Clinic Director/ Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Healthy Relationships
  • Intersectional Identities
  • Trauma & PTSD
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Andrés Gayoso Descalzi

MSW,RSW
(he/him)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity & Embodiment
  • Life Changes & Transitions
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Families
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Aysha Natsheh

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Food, Body, Self-Image
  • Trauma
  • Gender & Sexual Identity
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Bushra Ahmed

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth
  • Exploring Neurodivergent Identities
  • Impact of Oppression & Trauma on Mental Health
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Clara Doucette

MA, RP (Qualifying)
(she/her)

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relational Styles & Attachment
  • Friendships & Kinship
  • Stress

Cressida Frey

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Children, Adolescents and Adults
  • Violence, Trauma and Healing
  • Stress and Anxiety

Derek Cassidy

MSW, RSW
(he/him/they/them)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relationships and Attachment
  • Complex, Relational Trauma
  • Sexuality and Sexual Health
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Jesmen Mendoza

C.Psych. (he/him) Adjunct Psychologist  
Areas of focus:
  • Complex Mental Health
  • Consultation
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Jett Peters

MSW Candidate
(they/them)

Student Therapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity
  • Relationship(s) with Food & Body
  • Trauma
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Kathryn Bargis

MSc, RP (she/her) Registered Psychotherapist  
Areas of focus:
  • Relationships
  • Trauma
  • Gender and Sexual Identity
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Maxine Bower

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Attachment in Individuals and in Relationships
  • Complex Trauma
  • Deepening Connections
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Nicholas Sorg

MSc, RP
(he/him)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Stress, Anxiety, and Depression
  • Sexual Identity Development
  • Alternative Relationships, Relationship and Family Stress
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Rae Griffin-Carlson

MSW, RSW
(she/her)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults
  • Stress, Anxiety & Depression
  • Sexual & Gender-based Violence
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Rahim Thawer

MSW, RSW
(he/him)

External Clinical Supervisor

 

Areas of focus:
  • Identity Conflict & Shame
  • Dating, Relationships, Single by Chance/Choice
  • Sexualized Substance Use
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Saadia Khan

BA (they/them) Administrative and Social Media Assistant
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Stephanie Wu

RP, Professional Art Therapist
(they/them)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Intimate Partner Violence, Sexual Assault & Childhood Abuse
  • Impacts of Oppression
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults