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We Are a Network of Queer and Trans-identified Mental Health Professionals Who Serve the 2SLGBTQIA Community

Lgbtq Mental Health Counseling Burlington

LGBTQ mental health counseling in Burlington connects you with registered psychotherapists and social workers who understand your lived experience and provide care grounded in your values and identity. If you're looking for a therapist in Burlington who truly gets what it means to navigate the world as a queer, trans, non-binary, or Two-Spirit person, you deserve to know what makes a real difference in finding the right fit.

1. Culturally Safe Care Means Your Identity Is Never the Problem

When you walk into a counselling space, your gender identity, sexual orientation, and relationship structures should never be treated as something to fix or work through. Umbrella Mental Health Network approaches LGBTQ mental health counseling in Burlington by centering your identity as a strength, not a symptom. This means a therapist who understands the difference between internalized stigma you may carry and the real, valid distress that comes from living in an oppressive world.

Because Burlington and the Greater Toronto Area are home to thriving queer and trans communities, you have the right to expect a therapist who has done their own work around anti-oppressive practice. Umbrella's approach is grounded in feminist and social justice values, which means your therapist won't pathologize your queerness or ask you to become more palatable to straight or cisgender society.

2. Trauma-Informed Therapy Recognizes What You've Survived

Many LGBTQ+ people carry trauma specific to their identity: conversion attempts, family rejection, discrimination, intimate partner violence, or ongoing microaggressions. Trauma and PTSD treatment requires a therapist who understands this particular weight. Umbrella brings trauma-informed expertise to every session, meaning your therapist knows how trauma lives in your body, affects your relationships, and shapes how you move through the world.

Trauma-informed care also means your therapist won't push you to process everything at once or move faster than feels safe. Because you set the pace, you're in control of what you explore and when. This is especially important in Burlington, where you may have experienced trauma in spaces that felt isolating or where your identity wasn't recognized.

3. Couples Therapy and ENM Counselling Are Specialized Skills

Queer and trans relationships often involve structures, communication styles, and challenges that mainstream couples therapists don't understand. Whether you're navigating a committed partnership, an ethically non-monogamous relationship, or a chosen family structure, you need a therapist who gets it. Umbrella specializes in couples therapy and ENM counselling, which means you won't spend sessions explaining your relationship model or defending your choices.

An ENM-informed therapist understands jealousy, boundaries, and communication in multi-partner relationships without defaulting to heteronormative couple assumptions. In Burlington and throughout the Greater Toronto Area, Umbrella brings this expertise to help you build relationships that actually reflect how you want to love.

4. Gender Identity Exploration Is a Process, Not a Crisis

If you're questioning your gender, exploring your pronouns, or thinking about medical transition, a good therapist meets you where you are without pushing you toward any particular outcome. Gender and sexual identity exploration with Umbrella means you have space to wonder, change your mind, and figure out what feels right for you. This isn't conversion therapy or gatekeeping -- it's genuine exploration supported by someone who has training in trans and non-binary experience.

Many people in Burlington are at different points on their gender journey, and some are working through conflicting desires or family pressure. Your therapist should hold space for ambiguity, celebrate clarity when it arrives, and never treat your exploration as indecision that needs fixing.

5. Youth and Young Adult Counselling Addresses Real Pressures

Coming out, navigating school or work as a queer or trans young person, managing family relationships, and figuring out your identity all happen at once. Youth and young adult counselling through Umbrella is designed for the specific pressures you face: social media, peer dynamics, family expectations, and systemic barriers. A therapist who specializes in working with young people understands that your struggles are real and that your identity matters.

Because Burlington is part of a larger region where young LGBTQ+ people have access to community, your therapist can help you navigate both the opportunities and the ongoing challenges of living authentically at a formative age.

6. Sex-Positivity and Kink-Awareness Mean Your Sexuality Is Welcome Here

Too many therapists respond to discussions of sexuality with silence or judgment. Umbrella explicitly centers sex-positivity and kink-awareness in its approach, which means you can talk about pleasure, desire, boundaries, and sexual health without shame. Whether you're exploring your sexuality, working through trauma that affects intimacy, or navigating desires with a partner, a sex-positive therapist creates real safety.

This is part of anti-oppressive care: recognizing that your sexual expression and exploration are valid parts of being human, and that sex and intimacy deserve the same thoughtful attention as any other part of your life.

7. Finding a Therapist in Burlington Who Gets You Takes Intention

Not every therapist with LGBTQ+ clients is equipped for trauma-informed, anti-oppressive work. Umbrella Mental Health Network has built a practice specifically around serving the 2SLGBTQIA community with registered psychotherapists and social workers who bring expertise in the areas you actually need. When you reach out, you're connecting with people who chose this specialization because they believe in the work and live these values.

If you're in Burlington or the Greater Toronto Area and you're ready to find a therapist who truly understands your experience, Umbrella is here. You can reach out to learn more about how they can support your mental health journey with care that affirms who you are.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is there LGBTQ mental health counseling available in Burlington?

Yes. Umbrella Mental Health Network serves Burlington and the Greater Toronto Area with specialized LGBTQ mental health counseling provided by registered psychotherapists and social workers trained in trauma-informed, anti-oppressive care. You can reach out to them directly to discuss your needs and find the right fit.

What makes LGBTQ-specific counseling different from general therapy?

LGBTQ-specific counseling is provided by therapists who have training and lived understanding of queer and trans experience, and who don't treat your identity as pathology. Umbrella's approach is grounded in feminism, social justice, and anti-oppression, which means your therapist actively works against internalized shame and understands systemic oppression as a real source of distress, not just individual problems.

Does Umbrella offer couples therapy for queer relationships?

Yes. Umbrella specializes in couples therapy and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) counselling for LGBTQ+ couples and families. Their therapists understand queer relationship structures, communication styles, and challenges in ways that mainstream couples therapy often does not, so you won't spend sessions explaining your relationship model.

Acknowledgement

Tkaronto and the surrounding areas that we serve are within the Dish With One Spoon Territory. The Dish With One Spoon is a treaty between the Anishinaabe, Mississaugas and Haudenosaunee that bound them to share the territory and protect the land. Subsequent Indigenous Nations and Peoples, Europeans and all newcomers have been invited into this treaty in the spirit of peace, friendship and respect.

We at Umbrella recognize that the professions of psychology, psychotherapy, and social work have roots in colonial violence. As psychotherapists and social workers, we understand that we have a responsibility to continuously work to decolonize the practice of psychotherapy/social work and acknowledge the origins of the various healing practices we utilize.

Our therapists actively engage in regular training that emphasizes professional development, team support, and sharing the current knowledge in 2SLGBTQIA mental health, to ensure the highest level of care for our clients.

Meet Our Team

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Christopher Shillington

MA, CCC, RP
(they/them)

Clinic Director/ Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Healthy Relationships
  • Intersectional Identities
  • Trauma & PTSD
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Andrés Gayoso Descalzi

MSW,RSW
(he/him)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity & Embodiment
  • Life Changes & Transitions
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Families
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Aysha Natsheh

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Food, Body, Self-Image
  • Trauma
  • Gender & Sexual Identity
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Bushra Ahmed

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth
  • Exploring Neurodivergent Identities
  • Impact of Oppression & Trauma on Mental Health
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Clara Doucette

MA, RP (Qualifying)
(she/her)

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relational Styles & Attachment
  • Friendships & Kinship
  • Stress

Cressida Frey

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Children, Adolescents and Adults
  • Violence, Trauma and Healing
  • Stress and Anxiety

Derek Cassidy

MSW, RSW
(he/him/they/them)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • Relationships and Attachment
  • Complex, Relational Trauma
  • Sexuality and Sexual Health
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Jesmen Mendoza

C.Psych. (he/him) Adjunct Psychologist  
Areas of focus:
  • Complex Mental Health
  • Consultation
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Jett Peters

MSW Candidate
(they/them)

Student Therapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Gender Identity
  • Relationship(s) with Food & Body
  • Trauma
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Kathryn Bargis

MSc, RP (she/her) Registered Psychotherapist  
Areas of focus:
  • Relationships
  • Trauma
  • Gender and Sexual Identity
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Maxine Bower

MSW, RSW (she/her) Registered Social Worker  
Areas of focus:
  • Attachment in Individuals and in Relationships
  • Complex Trauma
  • Deepening Connections
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Nicholas Sorg

MSc, RP
(he/him)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Stress, Anxiety, and Depression
  • Sexual Identity Development
  • Alternative Relationships, Relationship and Family Stress
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Rae Griffin-Carlson

MSW, RSW
(she/her)

Registered Social Worker

 

Areas of focus:
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults
  • Stress, Anxiety & Depression
  • Sexual & Gender-based Violence
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Rahim Thawer

MSW, RSW
(he/him)

External Clinical Supervisor

 

Areas of focus:
  • Identity Conflict & Shame
  • Dating, Relationships, Single by Chance/Choice
  • Sexualized Substance Use
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Saadia Khan

BA (they/them) Administrative and Social Media Assistant
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Stephanie Wu

RP, Professional Art Therapist
(they/them)

Registered Psychotherapist

 

Areas of focus:
  • Intimate Partner Violence, Sexual Assault & Childhood Abuse
  • Impacts of Oppression
  • 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth & Adults